Temple Baptist Church - 12-14-2025
Psalm 39
Introduction:
A. Psalm 39 is one of the most introspective and sobering psalms David ever wrote. It is a psalm of reflection, restraint, and repentance. David is wrestling with the brevity of life, the heaviness of chastisement, and the need for God’s mercy.
1. In many ways, Psalm 39 is the prayer of a man who has come to the end of himself and is now casting himself wholly on God. We live in a world where people speak quickly, complain loudly, and seldom pause to measure their words or consider their souls.
2. Psalm 39 reminds us that there are times when silence is wisdom, restraint is godliness, and humility is healing.
B. Many personal and private matters should remain that way. I want to express this correctly because there is safety in the multitude of counselors, but some issues need to stay strictly between you and God. It is none of the world's or even other believers’ business.
C. The greatest example that I can field is that of Christ at Calvary. Our Lord became sin for us and died in our place that day. It was between Christ the Son and God the Father. The world would never understand this, and it was none of their business. It was personal between the Father and the Son.
Isaiah 53:6-7 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all. (7) He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he openeth not his mouth.
Matthew 27:13-14 Then said Pilate unto him, Hearest thou not how many things they witness against thee? (14) And he answered him to never a word; insomuch that the governor marvelled greatly.
Luke 23:8-9 And when Herod saw Jesus, he was exceeding glad: for he was desirous to see him of a long season, because he had heard many things of him; and he hoped to have seen some miracle done by him. (9) Then he questioned with him in many words; but he answered him nothing.
D. It is in these times that we are to “study to be quiet!” Here we find David speaking to himself! “I said” was a quiet self-reflection of what was going on. I often use the phrase “Self, I says.”
1. Verses 1-2. David restrains his tongue from speaking his thoughts. He illustrates in three ways that thoughts affect:
Psalms 39:1-2 To the chief Musician, even to Jeduthun, A Psalm of David. I said, I will take heed to my ways, that I sin not with my tongue: I will keep my mouth with a bridle, while the wicked is before me. (2) I was dumb with silence, I held my peace, even from good; and my sorrow was stirred.
a. Be careful what you do. “I will take heed to my ways”
b. Be careful what you say. “that I sin not with my tongue: I will keep my mouth with a bridle.”
c. Be careful what you say and do before the wicked. “while the wicked is before me.”
d. In front of the wicked. “While the wicked is before me,” All of us have said things that are personal before others and learned to regret it. “Never leave your tongue in gear when your mind is idling!” Nothing personal needs to be said before those who are not to be trusted.
Matthew 7:6 Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.
e. Even the good. “I held my peace, even from good.” Some things cannot be discussed before those whom you can trust. They may not understand or need to hear. Keep personal matters private.
f. Words spoken when you need to be quiet can be problematic.
1) Words spoken in anger can wound deeply.
2) Words spoken in frustration can dishonor God.
3) Words spoken in haste often become words we regret.
2. Verses 3-4. David spoke the unspeakable to the Lord alone.
Psalms 39:3-4 My heart was hot within me, while I was musing the fire burned: then spake I with my tongue, LORD, make me to know mine end, and the measure of my days, what it is; that I may know how frail I am.
a. David spoke to the right Person, the LORD. “then spake I with my tongue, LORD “ The Holy Ghost used a verse in the Book of 1 Peter that we all know by heart, but seldom use. There is nothing you cannot discuss with the Lord as He knows your thoughts afar off anyway. He knows what is on you heart and mind. Never be slow or afraid to talk with Him.
1 Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
b. David spoke to the Lord at the right time. “My heart was hot within me, while I was musing the fire burned: then spake I with my tongue,” David struck while the iron was hot. The quicker we take our cares to the Lord, the better the outcome.
3. Verses 4-6. David realizes the brevity of life.
Psalms 39:4-6 LORD, make me to know mine end, and the measure of my days, what it is; that I may know how frail I am. Behold, thou hast made my days as an handbreadth; and mine age is as nothing before thee: verily every man at his best state is altogether vanity. Selah. Surely every man walketh in a vain shew: surely they are disquieted in vain: he heapeth up riches, and knoweth not who shall gather them.
a. David knew his time on earth was short. “Make me to know mine end, and the measure of my days, what it is.” We may not have time to make things right, as our time may run out quicker than expected. The best time to make things right with God and men is now! We plan long but live short! We worry much, but life passes so quickly!
b. David knew his frailty. “that I may know how frail I am” We view David as a mighty man of war, and he was, but David, as all others, had weaknesses known only to God and self. Guard your weaknesses!
c. David knew that most of life is spent in vanity. “verily every man at his best state is altogether vanity. Selah. (6) Surely every man walketh in a vain shew.”
1) We often hurry but make little progress. My mother used to say, “The faster I catch up, the behinder I get!” Much of our lives is spent doing things that have no eternal benefit.
2) Life is too short for bitterness, too brief for pride, too fleeting for sin, and too valuable to be wasted on vanity.
4. Verses 7-9. David realizes that his only hope is in God.
Psalms 39:7-9 And now, Lord, what wait I for? my hope is in thee. Deliver me from all my transgressions: make me not the reproach of the foolish. I was dumb, I opened not my mouth; because thou didst it.
a. David awaits God’s answer to his problems. “And now, Lord, what wait I for? my hope is in thee.” The Lord is the hope of the world in salvation; the hope of the Christian in this world; and the eternal hope of the world to come. The sooner that we learn this truth; the better life will be.
Psalms 43:5 Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.
Isaiah 40:28-31 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding. (29) He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. (30) Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall: (31) But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
b. David asks for cleansing. “Deliver me from all my transgressions: make me not the reproach of the foolish.” True spiritual Christianity is the realization that the world is not the problem. The sin within is the issue. Out of the heart are the issues of life.
5. Verses 10-13. David throws himself on the mercy of the Lord.
Psalms 39:10-13 Remove thy stroke away from me: I am consumed by the blow of thine hand. (11) When thou with rebukes dost correct man for iniquity, thou makest his beauty to consume away like a moth: surely every man is vanity. Selah. (12) Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear unto my cry; hold not thy peace at my tears: for I am a stranger with thee, and a sojourner, as all my fathers were. (13) O spare me, that I may recover strength, before I go hence, and be no more.
a. David bows under the righteous chastening of the Lord. “Remove thy stroke away from me: I am consumed by the blow of thine hand. When thou with rebukes dost correct man for iniquity, thou makest his beauty to consume away like a moth: surely every man is vanity. Selah.” We need to humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God. There is a blessedness in God’s chastening as it is a sign of sonship.
b. David asked God for forgiveness. “Hear my prayer, O LORD, and give ear unto my cry; hold not thy peace at my tears: for I am a stranger with thee, and a sojourner, as all my fathers were. (13) O spare me, that I may recover strength, before I go hence, and be no more.” Take your burdens to the Lord and leave them there. As Solomon asked for wisdom, David asks for forgiveness. David does not ask for greatness, riches, or victory. He asks for strength to keep going until the Lord calls him home.
Conclusion: Psalm 39 teaches three great spiritual lessons:
- Guard your tongue, especially under pressure.
- Remember the brevity of life—and live accordingly.
- Seek God’s mercy, for He is our only hope in life and death.